Hi Mr. Edward! It would depend on your preferences. If you want a place that is more laid back I suggest you consider Tagaytay. It is already in the oustskirts of Metro Manila but its a lot cooler and more relaxed. If you love recreation such golf...the alabang area would be convenient. Ayala Alabang is a high end village in the Philippines where they have their own countryclub. Most expats live here as the area is well secured and maintained.
If you plan to work here, I suggest living in a condo in Makati or Fort Taguig would be the place as this areas belong the the business district of the Manila.
These are just my suggestions! Hope I was able to help you in any way! :)